There are many reasons. Folks could be egocentric--keen to impress others with their own thoughts, stories, and ideas (and never think to ask questions). Maybe they're apathetic--they do not care enough to ask, or they anticipate being bored by the answers they would hear. They could be overconfident in their own knowledge and believe they know the answers (which occasionally they do, but usually not). Or maybe they fear they'll ask the wrong question and be seen as rude or incompetent. But the biggest inhibitor, in our opinion, is that most people simply don't know how beneficial good coughing could be.
When they did, they'd end far fewer sentences with a period--and more using a question mark. Recent research shows that asking questions achieves both. Alison and Harvard colleagues Karen Huang, Michael Yeomans, Julia Minson, and Francesca Gino scrutinized thousands of natural discussions among participants that have been getting to know one another, either in online chats or on in-person rate dates. In the internet chats, the individuals who have been randomly assigned to ask many questions were better liked by their conversation partners and learned more about their partners' interests.
For example, when quizzed about their spouses' preferences for activities like cooking, reading, and exercising, high question askers were prone to be able to guess accurately. One of the rate daters, people were willing to go on a second date with partners who requested more questions. In reality, asking just one more question on each date supposed that participants convinced one extra person (over the duration of 20 dates) to go out together . Questions are such powerful tools that they may be valuable --maybe particularly so--in situation when query inquiring goes against societal norms. For instance, prevailing norms tell us that job applicants are expected to answer questions through interviews. However research by Dan Cable, at the London Business School, and Virginia Kay, at the University of North Carolina, indicates that many people excessively self-promote during job interviews. And when interviewees concentrate on selling themselves, they are likely to neglect to ask questions--about the interviewer, the company, the job --which would make the interviewer feel much more engaged and more inclined to observe the candidate favorably and could assist the candidate forecast whether the job would offer satisfying work. For job candidates, asking questions like"What am I not asking you which I need to?" Can signal competence, build rapport, and uncover key pieces of information concerning the position.